I’m genderfluid, and our kid knows that gender can change and that some people are neither gender, or both. He himself is usually both. It’s going to crush my heart a little if I have to explain to him that…
I started dancing in a community that uses gender-neutral or positional calling. I’ve heard of some quippy one-liners that have been lost to this kind of calling, and some of them are pretty funny, but I don’t really have any…
I’ve been dancing both roles for almost as long as I’ve been contra dancing. There were often more women than men, so if I wanted to dance, I would ask another woman to dance with me. I loved getting to…
